Toasting is a time-honored tradition that transcends cultures, but not everyone knows the proper etiquette. A well-executed toast adds a touch of sophistication and charm, while a misstep could bring more than just an awkward moment – some say it brings years of bad luck or, depending on whom you ask, bad luck in love!
1. Eye Contact is Key
Making eye contact while toasting is crucial. In many cultures, failing to meet the eyes of your fellow celebrants during a toast is considered bad luck. It’s a small gesture but one that connects everyone in the moment.
2. Use the Right Words
A classic “cheers” is always in good taste, but knowing a few alternatives can elevate the experience. Try “à votre santé” (French for “to your health”), “prost” (German), or the Italian “cin cin.”
3. Don’t Cross Glasses
In large groups, avoid crossing arms with others when clinking glasses. This is not only awkward but also traditionally considered to invite misfortune.
4. Take a Sip, Don’t Chug
Remember, toasting is about savoring the moment. Take a polite sip rather than downing your drink – this keeps things classy and prevents accidental faux pas.
5. Avoid Toasting with Water
This is a big one! In many traditions, toasting with water is a no-no, said to bring bad luck. For a memorable toast, always fill your glass with a drink that matches the celebratory spirit.
6. Be Mindful of Your Glassware
For added sophistication, be aware of the type of glass you’re using. A champagne flute, a wine glass, or a whiskey tumbler all lend a different vibe to your toast. Pick accordingly and hold your glass by the stem or base for an elegant touch.
7. Always Thank the Host
Finally, acknowledge the person hosting the gathering. Raising your glass to them first shows gratitude and respect, setting the tone for a memorable toast.
Toasting done right brings joy, connection, and a bit of luck – or so the tradition goes. Try these tips at your next gathering and see if you can avoid those proverbial seven years of bad luck!
